Sex Advice Blog

What does a sex coach do?

What does a sex coach do?

As a Somatic Sex Coach, most of the time I work with clients on the following four things: Sexual Mastery I provide sex & relationship education that most of us never got. It includes accurate information and practical tools that help my clients create deep,...

Multiple Orgasms Question

Multiple Orgasms Question

“I would love some tips on how I can bring my multiple orgasms back. I used to be able to have them easily, but since I turned 40, they just fizzled out. “

Sexual polarity – a piece of sexual chemistry puzzle

Sexual polarity – a piece of sexual chemistry puzzle

I met Eric on my three months long trip in Central America at a random couch surfing party. He was exactly my type: adventurous, mysterious, and a badass. It was "love at first 6 hours of talking." He was in Panama for five months already, studying Spanish,...

5 Sex tips for married couples or long term relationships

5 Sex tips for married couples or long term relationships

Couples often put their sex life on a back burner for years, only to question why their spouse feels more like a roommate later. Below I share five practical intimacy tips that will help you stay excited about your partner long-term. 1. Be ok with both your or your...

Question: what people struggle with the most in sex?

Question: what people struggle with the most in sex?

I could say that men and women who seek me out for sex coaching struggle a lot with sexual confidence, knowing what exactly to do in the bedroom and feeling comfortable in their skin while doing it… but I think the underlying issue is different…

A Secret to Reclaiming Your Sexual Desire

A Secret to Reclaiming Your Sexual Desire

There is a lot of pressure for women in our society to want sex spontaneously, as well as to be wet at the drop of a hat and orgasm easily and from intercourse only. You may be surprised to learn that according to research only about 15% of women experience exclusively spontaneous desire.

Sex is a learned skill

Sex is a learned skill

Sex, just like playing an instrument, is a learned skill. So, what does it take to become a virtuoso lover? It starts with learning how to tune, care for, and play your own instrument, or your body. Both physical and emotional. It starts with: understanding your...

Don’t let your feelings get crusty

Don’t let your feelings get crusty

Cleaning dirty dishes right away takes way less energy than if you wait for days or weeks. Same goes for addressing hurts in your relationships. Not easy, takes vulnerability and discipline but will save you from feeling disconnected and resentful toward your partners in the long run.