About Anya Laeta

I was fascinated with sex and relationships for as long as I can remember.

Despite being open-minded and comfortable with sex, all my relationships would start lacking passion and excitement after about a year or so. I would conclude that I “fell out of love” and look for a new relationship. Only to repeat this pattern all over 6-12 months later.

Not being able to have a sustainable, fulfilling sex life made me feel like a failure in relationships. It is this challenge that ultimately led me to study human sexuality, Tantra, and relationship psychology.

Understanding how my erotic mind, desire, arousal, sexual polarity, and anatomy work empowers me to create and re-create excitement, passion, and sexual satisfaction every day.

I would be lying if I said it’s easy. Yet, having a roadmap to do it made it possible for me to have a happy and sexy long-term relationship that I was dreaming about.

Today I’m honored to help you meet your erotic potential and relationship needs!

My Background

  • VITA Sex, Love & Relationship Coach (certification in progress), Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality, 2022
  • Certified Sexological Bodyworker, IISB® 2018
  • Somatica Method of Sex and Intimacy Coaching, Somatica Institute, 2016
  • Certified Tantra Teacher, Tao Tantric Arts, 2016

Some of the teachers who shaped me as a Tantra and Somatic Sex Coach are Layla Martin, Michaela Boehm, David Deida, Shakti Malan, Celeste & Danielle.

The last 15 years in San Francisco have been a great playground for exploring alternative relationship styles, kink, and BDSM.