I could say that men and women who seek me out for sex coaching struggle a lot with sexual confidence, knowing what exactly to do in the bedroom and feeling comfortable in their skin while doing it… but I think the underlying issue is different…
There is a lot of pressure for women in our society to want sex spontaneously, as well as to be wet at the drop of a hat and orgasm easily and from intercourse only. You may be surprised to learn that according to research only about 15% of women experience exclusively spontaneous desire.
Cleaning dirty dishes right away takes way less energy than if you wait for days or weeks. Same goes for addressing hurts in your relationships. Not easy, takes vulnerability and discipline but will save you from feeling disconnected and resentful toward your partners in the long run.
Looking for a hot date idea? Under the right circumstances watching porn together can do wonders for your sex life.
I know many men would love the idea while many women would feel the opposite. Heck, I’m one of those women! When it comes to mainstream porn…
I had a pleasure of talking to Monique Chapman, exploring the topics of sex coaching, desire, mismatching libido, sex advice, creativity and communication in the bedroom. Check it out!
Recently I was invited to participate in an expert roundup sharing my thoughts on a topic of what a couple should consider when shopping for the best mattress for sex.
I was mainly looking at physical characteristics that make mattresses more fun to have sex on. I love though that some sexperts saw mattress shopping as an opportunity for partners to talk about different things that matter to both of them when it comes to sex.
