Sex is a learned skill

Sex is a learned skill

Sex, just like playing an instrument, is a learned skill. So, what does it take to become a virtuoso lover? It starts with learning how to tune, care for, and play your own instrument, or your body. Both physical and emotional. It starts with: understanding your...
Resentment: How to let go

Resentment: How to let go

Cleaning dirty dishes right away takes way less energy than if you wait for days or weeks. Same goes for addressing hurts in your relationships. Not easy, takes vulnerability and discipline but will save you from feeling disconnected and resentful toward your partners in the long run.

Hot date idea to spice up your sex life

Hot date idea to spice up your sex life

Looking for a hot date idea? Under the right circumstances watching porn together can do wonders for your sex life.

I know many men would love the idea while many women would feel the opposite. Heck, I’m one of those women! When it comes to mainstream porn…

Tips on how to choose the best mattress for sex

Tips on how to choose the best mattress for sex

Recently I was invited to participate in an expert roundup sharing my thoughts on a topic of what a couple should consider when shopping for the best mattress for sex.

I was mainly looking at physical characteristics that make mattresses more fun to have sex on. I love though that some sexperts saw mattress shopping as an opportunity for partners to talk about different things that matter to both of them when it comes to sex.