I remember 8 years ago going through the most excruciating heartbreak of my life.
We didn’t break up because we didn’t love each other. We broke up because I didn’t feel the desire to have sex.
At the end of the day, I would be lying in bed with this most beautiful and amazing man desperately wishing passion and desire was there.
My heart and mind wanted him, but my body was completely silent.
Without sex life, we were just close friends. And it was devastating.
After half a year of waiting for my libido to come back, we broke up.
I spent years trying to understand what happened and what could have been done differently.
I had to question a lot of social messages and beliefs about desire and intimacy. I had to get a better understanding of my sexual self and find the education that was missing in my life and in the lives of the women I knew.
Today I am in a happy long-term and sexually thriving relationship and I want to share with you one thing that can transform your sex life and how you view desire.